On Connection

 If you've ever found yourself wondering where all the single people in Zürich are, you're certainly not alone.

It's one of the most common frustrations I hear from clients.

Many people describe dating in Zürich as difficult. Between demanding careers, established friendship groups and weekends spen...

We carefully plan our careers, finances and futures. So why do we often leave our love lives entirely to chance?

When was the last time you made a significant life decision without giving it much thought?

For most of us, the answer is probably "rarely."

We research before changing careers, we compar...

Many people approach dating by focusing on one question:

"Where can I meet the right person?"

But before we focus on where to meet someone, it can be helpful to pause and ask a different question:

"Am I clear about the relationship I want to create?"

The quality of our dating decisions often reflect...

It's not what you think

If you’re not getting matches on dating apps, it’s easy to assume the problem is simple. That you’re not attractive enough, that your profile isn’t strong enough, or that other people just have it easier.

So the instinct is to change something quickly - new photos, a differen...

You wouldn’t hire someone without knowing what you’re looking for.

In your career, that would feel careless, expensive and even irresponsible. 

You define the role.
You know what matters.
You have a sense of what would make someone a strong fit - and what wouldn’t.

There’s a structure to how you decid...

It starts to feel familiar

At some point, it starts to feel familiar.

Different person, similar dynamic.

You tell yourself this time will be different. And in the beginning, it often does feel different. But then something shifts, and you realise you have ended up in territory you already know.

Not ...