When people describe what they want in a partner, values, needs and preferences often become mixed together. Someone may say they need a partner who is ambitious, tall, spontaneous or highly educated, while overlooking the deeper qualities that would determine whether the relationship actually fee...
Many people know that they want a relationship, but have much less clarity about what they want that relationship to feel like, how it should function or what kind of person could realistically build it with them. They may be able to describe an ideal partner as intelligent, attractive, ambitious...
Dating can bring up a lot of uncertainty.
You meet someone new, you feel excited, and suddenly your mind starts trying to answer questions you cannot possibly know the answers to yet. Do they like me? Where is this going? Did I say the wrong thing? Why haven’t they replied? Am I wasting my time...
“Dating with intention” has become a phrase we hear everywhere.
People write it on dating profiles, talk about wanting something serious and describe themselves as being ready to meet someone who is aligned with what they want. And while knowing what you want is important, intentional dating is n...
“How do I know if they’re the right person?”
It’s one of the biggest questions people ask when dating. Sometimes it comes up after a few dates when everything feels exciting and you are wondering whether this connection could become something more. Sometimes it appears months into a relationship ...
Have you ever met someone and felt an instant spark?
The conversation flows effortlessly. You feel drawn to them. You’re excited when their name appears on your phone. There is an energy you can’t quite explain.
The chemistry! And it is POWERFUL!
It’s the reason dating can feel exciting, unpred...
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