Dating apps have made it easier than ever to access other singles.
And yet, for many people, meeting someone still feels surprisingly difficult.
A representative Swiss survey conducted in September 2024 found that 61% of singles had previously dated online or were currently looking for a partner...
When people describe what they want in a partner, values, needs and preferences often become mixed together. Someone may say they need a partner who is ambitious, tall, spontaneous or highly educated, while overlooking the deeper qualities that would determine whether the relationship actually fee...
Many people know that they want a relationship, but have much less clarity about what they want that relationship to feel like, how it should function or what kind of person could realistically build it with them. They may be able to describe an ideal partner as intelligent, attractive, ambitious...
Dating can bring up a lot of uncertainty.
You meet someone new, you feel excited, and suddenly your mind starts trying to answer questions you cannot possibly know the answers to yet. Do they like me? Where is this going? Did I say the wrong thing? Why haven’t they replied? Am I wasting my time...
“Dating with intention” has become a phrase we hear everywhere.
People write it on dating profiles, talk about wanting something serious and describe themselves as being ready to meet someone who is aligned with what they want. And while knowing what you want is important, intentional dating is n...
“How do I know if they’re the right person?”
It’s one of the biggest questions people ask when dating. Sometimes it comes up after a few dates when everything feels exciting and you are wondering whether this connection could become something more. Sometimes it appears months into a relationship ...
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