On Connection

If you've ever searched for a dating coach in Zürich, you've probably wondered the same thing:

What does a dating coach actually do?

Do they help you write dating app profiles? Tell you what to text? Set you up on dates?

While those things can sometimes be part of the process, they're only scratch...

We carefully plan our careers, finances and futures. So why do we often leave our love lives entirely to chance?

When was the last time you made a significant life decision without giving it much thought?

For most of us, the answer is probably "rarely."

We research before changing careers, we compar...

You wouldn’t hire someone without knowing what you’re looking for.

In your career, that would feel careless, expensive and even irresponsible. 

You define the role.
You know what matters.
You have a sense of what would make someone a strong fit - and what wouldn’t.

There’s a structure to how you decid...

You wouldn’t hire a professional based on chemistry alone.
So why are you choosing a life partner that way?

I’ve spent over a decade in recruitment and hired thousands of professionals. And the same patterns that lead to poor hiring decisions? I see them in dating every day.

1. You’re Optimising fo...

If you’re an intelligent man who hasn’t had much dating success, you’ve probably asked yourself a quiet, uncomfortable question:

“What am I missing?”

You’re thoughtful. You’re respectful. You listen.
You’re capable in your work and reliable in your life.

And yet, dating feels confusing, inefficient, ...

Let’s get one thing straight:

You’re not “broken” because you have baggage. You’re human.

Every person walking into a new relationship brings along experiences - past heartbreaks, disappointments, lessons, and beliefs shaped by the past. That’s baggage. But baggage isn’t inherently bad. It’s a sign ...