On Connection
It rarely feels like a lack of options.
You meet people, you go on dates, you’re on the apps. From the outside, there is no obvious shortage. And yet, something still feels limited - not in quantity, but in fit.
This is where many professionals misread their situation. The issue is not that there ...
Casual dating works well for a lot of people. For some, it’s a clear, honest choice - aligned with where they are in life and what they want right now.
If you don’t want a serious relationship, and casual dating feels clean, enjoyable, and uncomplicated, this article isn’t really for you.
But if y...
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If you’re an intelligent man who hasn’t had much dating success, you’ve probably asked yourself a quiet, uncomfortable question:
“What am I missing?”
You’re thoughtful. You’re respectful. You listen.
You’re capable in your work and reliable in your life.
And yet, dating feels confusing, ineffic...
ZĂĽrich is full of intelligent, accomplished, self-aware people.
People with successful careers.
Healthy lifestyles.
International backgrounds.
And yet, many of them quietly ask the same question:
“Why does dating here feel so disconnected?”
If you’ve had pleasant conversations, decent dates, and v...
For ambitious men and women in their late 20s, 30s, and early 40s, life often feels like a constant project in progress. Careers are being built, businesses are scaling, financial security is a priority, and personal growth is non-negotiable. In the middle of all that, dating frequently gets postpon...
Celine was hyped. She prepped her apartment like she was hosting Harry Styles: comfy PJs, snackies and wine, a clean bathroom, and a playlist that screamed “cozy, sexy, not desperate.” The night went well - laughs, cuddles, and a crescendo of intimacy. She went to bed thinking, “Yes. This is it.”
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